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25 life lessons I learned at 25 🎂 — this video is a reflection on everything the past year has taught me about growth, mindset, and becoming the woman I’ve always wanted to be. from overcoming past failures and trusting my intuition to protecting my energy, finding balance, and learning the power of therapy — these are the lessons that truly changed how I see myself and the world. turning 25 has been all about evolving, embracing discomfort, and letting go of what no longer serves me. whether you’re navigating your own season of change or simply looking for motivation to keep growing, I hope these lessons remind you that self-care, consistency, and courage will always take you further than fear ever could. 🤍
♡ WHAT’S IN THIS VIDEO:
00:00 Introduction
01:37 Lesson 1: Forget the Past
03:11 Lesson 2: You Are What You Consume
04:22 Lesson 3: Protect Your Energy
05:20 Lesson 4: Trust Your Intuition
06:23 Lesson 5: Starting Therapy
08:25 Lesson 6: People Aren’t Villains, They’re Limited
09:53 Lesson 7: Lock Into Your Goals
11:30 Lesson 8: Get Comfortable Making Others Uncomfortable
12:51 Lesson 9: Find Joy in the Way You Do Things
14:46 Lesson 10: Life is Too Short Not to Get Closure
16:11 Lesson 11: Find Your Outdated Subconscious Scripts
17:27 Lesson 12: New Eras Come with Loneliness
19:18 Lesson 13: Regulate Before You Grind
20:48 Lesson 14: Stop Using Struggle as an Identity
22:09 Lesson 15: You Attract What You Believe You Are Worthy Of
23:32 Lesson 16: Healing Isn’t About Not Being Triggered
24:23 Lesson 17: The Things You Want to Do Require Confidence
25:50 Lesson 18: Your Soulmate is Like Nothing You Ever Imagined
27:31 Lesson 19: Stop Feeling Bad
28:55 Lesson 20: Future Self Mentoring
30:02 Lesson 21: Falling Out of Frequency
31:06 Lesson 22: Rest and Balance for True Manifestation
32:38 Lesson 23: Discomfort is the Cost of an Interesting Life
33:33 Lesson 24: Ask More Questions
35:00 Lesson 25: Get Obsessed with Your Potential
36:22 Conclusion
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📄 ABOUT ME:
My mission is to help young women everywhere become their BEST SELVES and create their dream life. Self-improvement and self-love transformed my life. It took me from being the shy, insecure, unmotivated girl who was always hurt by men… to being the woman who prioritises herself everyday, achieves the goals on her vision board, takes herself on dates, feels fulfilled when alone, has a newfound confidence AND has power over her dating life. I found my purpose in life after working on myself and I want to help and inspire YOU to do the same.
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Im obsessed with this video 🫶🏻
I turned 25 today and came to this video
6 & 7 are swapped.
6) People are villains
7) lock in your goals
You don’t have to doubt yourself at all. Every video you do is good. Period.
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lesson 19 stop feeling bad and lesson 25 GET OBESSED
Hi tamkaur, ive been watching you for quite a time and I feel like this video doesnt feel like you. For example i like a lot your quick zoom-ins but different angles of camera feel unnatural, less chill. Music is a bit too loud compared to your voice. Also I feel like scenario is a little more scripted which i also dont like. Ofc its just my opinion. Anyway, Im so proud of you achieving more and more. Keep going girl!
I'm 25, I hope I'm note late…. Still taking Notes and learning.
Tam feels like a big sister, even tho i just found out i actually older than her for 2 years lmaoo age really can't define wisdom, i'm happy for herr and respect her more because of it
🤍 girl I love your channel
I met my soul mate 10 years ago now. It really is nothing like any other love. It never feels stressful. It never feels like work. And you just feel like it comes naturally, like they were always there. And even as time passes, you don't feel less in love or less connected. There isn't a "honeymoon phase" because you just never stop being happy together.
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Loveeee this video make amother one in 2026
I don't know if anyone would see this but recently i saw the guy i used to talk with last year and I've been constantly thinking about it. Mostly seeking validation from the fake scenarios in my head because i didn't get closure that night i ended things. I never heard his thoughts, just a "you know what's best for you" type of response and i want to know what thinks about me/about what happened. Should i type him a letter or message of sorts by writing all the things i wish to tell him? or should i just continue living?
Love the video style!
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Love uhhhhhhh so much 💜🧿🫂
I’m glad you posted this, I gained lots of knowledge and will be applying it. Keep going girl!❤
Amazing video, thanks so much! I appreciate the way you worded everything
Thank you ❤
One of the best videos I have seen on this youtube platform ❤ So much love and respect for you Tam 🫶🏻📝
26 tomorrow amen
Such an inspiring soul
This video was amazing!!!❤❤❤
Tam you're my saviour❣️ You saved me again as always, from sleeping tonight with all the feelings of worthlessness and hopelessness. Tomorrow is my new beginning !
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you make me feel that everything is possible ❤️
tam, i watched your videos at the start of 2025 and felt so equipped for my year. i didn’t watch your videos for a while until now – and i really missed you. i missed the “getting obsessed with myself” idea. i really love that – i’m sick of pleasing others. that’s my goal for 2026. becoming the most fulfilled woman of God ever and stop pleasing others and not feeling guilty about it.
i appreciate you so much ❤🎉
Oh, I’m learning English with you and listening you podcast. I understood a lot. You the best
Get obsessed was my best❤
I love you tam 💗
I need each one of them 💅💟
Loved it and the jazz music visuals ❤️
love the ending
I m locking in for 2026🤍
21:00 this is something i really need to work on as a black woman living in France
Yes! Love this. Such a beautiful message. Goes along perfectly with what I teach — how to step into your dream life from identity, not effort. ❤. Locking in from the new you!
When is your next video coming out? It has been 2 weeks, no rush just curious
I don't think Tam Kaur realises how much I love her,and how much I've grown because of her❤❤❤❤❤❤
Loved the new format!!! ❤❤❤
Amazing points ✅✅🙏🙏
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Manifest the Divine by Elena River didn’t just give me information, it gave me direction. I started taking small steps, just like she teaches, and the momentum has been crazy. I’m so grateful for this book. ❤️